Every one of us has a need to find love and acceptance, and to be esteemed.

But we will all face those moments when we have to endure the feeling of loss and shame that follows a heartbreak, a job loss, or failure to gain entry or acceptance into a social group.

It hurts, it’s disconcerting and confusing.

Nothing makes sense.

As much as it may temporarily look like the end of the road, when successfully navigated, moments of loss may help us to recalibrate and rebrand into a new version of ourselves.

Just so you know, I have been fired, dumped and rejected. Each time it looked like the end of life, but in reality, it led me into a moment of soul-searching, reflection and unearthed gifts I didn’t know existed within me.

If you’re there and are feeling downcast, there’s hope…you can ReAlign and bounce back again!Safari Njema!